Saturday, August 7, 2010

My boyfriend is controlling and I don;t listen, is it possible he will put his hands on me?

I'm only 5'4 and he's 5'6 1/3, so I don't listen to his orders (were 13), he pulls my arms when I walk away, he loves me very much, he give me stuff , calls me all the time, and he make sure I get home safely and all that. Anyways is it possible if I don't listen , will he hit me.My boyfriend is controlling and I don;t listen, is it possible he will put his hands on me?
Buying you stuff and calling you all the time does not equal love. Yes, it sounds like he's controlling, and yes, controlling people in a relationship can lead to abuse.





Tell him that you don't like being told what to do and that you already have parents who are legally entitled to do that. Tell him you feel two people should be equal in a relationship. If he doesn't agree or flips out, then you should end it right then and there.





Don't let anyone touch you in a way you don't like or treat you in a way that feels controlling and abusive. If he's that kind of guy, that's not a kind of guy you want to be with.My boyfriend is controlling and I don;t listen, is it possible he will put his hands on me?
Okay, He may love you. But if he is 13 and already pulling your arm when you walk away then yea he will put his hands on you. You need to sit him down and tell him if does not change you will leave him and have nothing to do with him. He may say he will change but he probably wont. And just because he buys you thingde does not mean that he will not hit you. Once a guy grabs you or hits you and you let him think that it is okay then he will try to say sorry then go out and buy you stuff then turn around and do it again.
well, i dont know him, but my guess is that he probably wont hit you, but dont take my word. if he pulls your arm again and u reallly dont want to follow him you need to tell him to let you go, but you hav to be very serious or he'll think u meant it in a playful kind of joking way. he needs to know your serious.
Honey this is certainly not love, you both are kids 13 years old still wet behind the ears. Why would you take orders from him? By all means he will end up hitting you. Get away from him.

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